Monthly Archives: November 2023

“Someone should do something about that.”

So you’re talking to a colleague and you discuss a situation that needs fixing. Eg the toaster is broken. The milk is off in the fridge. That process is not working. Someone’s going away lunch needs to be organised. And … Continue reading

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I am here today because of all the rejections I’ve experienced.

Oftentimes when I contemplate the tapestry of my life, I realise how wonderful and truly blessed I am. I have the goodwill of my colleagues who are some of the smartest people I have had the pleasure of working with … Continue reading

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Would I have an issue being a token hire?

For a Head of Engineering role where I have zero qualifications and zero experience – the answer is Yes. For a Head of Delivery or People Engagement/Culture/Transformation – where I have a whole lot of experience – the answer is … Continue reading

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A starting position when trying to manipulate someone or something

A few years ago, I tried to manipulate a situation in the workplace. It was an email thread with a senior leader and multiple team members. I asked an innocent-seeming  question in the email, with the intent that the senior … Continue reading

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Am I kind? That’s not for me to say. It’s for others to decide.

Me: So, are you a kind person? Are you generous? Person: Look, it’s not for me to decide whether I am kind or not. This is for others – that’s their business what they think of me. Friends, I’m calling … Continue reading

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